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Death and Dying: We Don't Go Anywhere

In the journey of life, we all must confront the inevitable reality of death. However, death is not the end, but rather a transformation, a transition from one state of being to another. This blog aims to explore this concept further and provide comfort to those who are grieving.

Part 1: Our Perception of Others and Ourselves

Perception plays a profound role in how we relate to others and ourselves. Often, our relationships are based on what we imagine others are thinking and feeling in relation to how we are thinking and feeling.

Communicating Beyond Presence: Energy, Memory, and Imagination

In our everyday interactions, we engage not only with the physical presence of individuals but also their energetic fields. This exchange of energy can often leave a lasting impression, shaping our memories and perceptions of them, even when they are no longer in our immediate presence. We may find ourselves revisiting conversations, conjuring their reactions, or even hearing their voices in our minds. This ability to recall and interact with the energy of others is not limited to the living, extending beyond the realm of physical existence.

Engaging with Energetic Imprints: Memory, Imagination, and Beyond

The energetic interactions we share with others do not cease when they are physically absent or have transitioned from life. In fact, the energetic imprint of a person can be so strong that our minds can recreate their presence in their absence. This process allows us to have 'conversations' with them in our minds, reengaging with their energy and continuing the exchange long after they have passed.

The Power of Energy Exchange

This phenomenon is a testament to the power of energy exchange and the human ability to interpret, recall, and reengage these exchanges. It reflects our capacity to connect with the energy fields of others, vividly recalling their essence and even generating new interactions based on our memories and perceptions of them.

Re-engaging with Transitions Energy

Even after a person has transitioned from this life, we can continue to interact with their energy, creating new exchanges and connections. These interactions can often provide comfort, wisdom, or insight, reflecting the individual's god-consciousness and unique energy imprint.

It's important to note that these new interactions may still carry traces of their earthly embodiment, such as their quirks, sarcasm, or the way they would smile. These familiar elements serve to enrich the new energy exchange, grounding it in our shared history and experiences.

Navigating Grief through Energy Exchange

Understanding our ability to continue energetic exchanges with those who have transitioned can offer a unique perspective on grief and loss. It can provide a sense of continuity and connection, helping to navigate the emotional turmoil that often accompanies loss.

In conclusion, the energetic imprint of individuals extends beyond their physical existence, allowing for ongoing interaction and exchange. This understanding broadens our perspective on death, grief, and connection, reminding us that while physical presence may be transient, energetic presence can endure, facilitating continued engagement, conversation, and connection.

Part 2: Transition and Energy

When we speak of death, we generally refer to the cessation of physical functions. But what about our essence, our energy? Energy, as we know from physics, cannot disappear; it only changes form. When a person dies, their active energy centers interact with our inactive ones. This interaction continues indefinitely, suggesting that in some way, our loved ones remain with us even after death.

Part 3: The Healing Role of Pets in the Grief Process

Pets often play a significant role in our lives, particularly when we are dealing with the grief of losing a loved one. Their presence can provide emotional support, companionship, and unconditional love, helping us soothe our grief and navigate the difficult journey of loss.

Pets as Comforters in Grief

Pets energetically offer comfort and companionship, their presence serving as a balm for our wounded hearts. Their ability to love unconditionally can be a powerful tool in assuaging our grief, providing a source of solace during the challenging process of mourning.

The Pain of Losing a Pet

However, when a pet who has been there for us during our grieving process passes away, the pain can be doubly intense. This heightened pain is not only due to the loss of the pet but also a reemergence of the grief for the human loved one we were mourning. It's crucial to recognize this compounded grief and allow ourselves to mourn both losses.

Processing Grief and Loss

The death of a pet during the grieving process for a human loved one can trigger the grief that we may have initially suppressed or set aside. The loss of the pet might make us ready to face the grief of losing the family member, leading to an intense emotional response.

In these moments, it is essential to understand that the intense pain is a part of the healing process. Mourning the loss of the pet may also mean processing the grief of the family member who passed away.


Part 4: The Eternality of Energy: Transcending Time and Space

Energy is eternal, not constrained by the limitations of time or space. This understanding opens up new perspectives on life, death, and the connections we share with our loved ones.

A Client's Experience: Connection Beyond Death

I recall working with a client whose husband was in the process of transitioning. As she navigated this challenging period, she came to a profound realization: where her husband was 'going', she and her children were already there waiting for him.

This realization defines the existence of an alternate energetic reality, a space where our loved ones exist in a timeless and boundless domain. In this reality, those who transition from life are not 'leaving' but rather 'arriving' into a realm where their loved ones are already present.

Transcending Time and Space

This concept transcends our conventional understanding of time and space, describing how in the realm of energy, the past, present, and future coexist. It's as if upon transitioning, individuals awaken from a dream into a new life, a life where they fully remember their place and are reunited with their loved ones.

Eternity and Energy

In the context of eternity, there is no time-space reality. Energy, being eternal, exists beyond these constraints, allowing for interactions and connections that transcend physical existence. This understanding explains our loved ones presence in this alternate energetic reality, continuing to interact and connect with us energetically.

The eternality of energy provides a comforting perspective on death, reinforcing how our connections with our loved ones continue in a timeless and boundless energetic realm. This perspective can offer solace during the grieving process, fostering a sense of continuity and connection beyond physical existence.

Part 5: Dreams and Transition: Understanding Fractal Realities

The concept of fractal realities and alternate dimensions might seem abstract and far-removed from our daily experiences. However, if we consider the nature of our dreams, we can see a striking parallel. Dreams provide us with an experiential understanding of moving between realities, offering insights into the process of death and transition.

Dreaming: Experiencing Alternate Realities

When we dream, we find ourselves in an alternate reality, one where we are immersed in different scenarios, interacting with various characters. Intriguingly, even though the people and surroundings in our dreams may appear different from our waking reality, we inherently recognize them.

For instance, we might dream of a person who looks different, yet we instinctively 'know' it's a specific individual, say our father. Similarly, we might find ourselves in a building or a situation that we have never encountered in our waking life, yet in the dream, it feels familiar, and we understand the storyline.

Dreams and Conscious Understanding

In dreams, we are rarely lost or confused about our identity or the identities of others. We don't typically question the storyline or wonder about our role in it. Instead, we accept the dream's reality and engage in it as if it's a familiar, understandable narrative.

Death and Transition: Stepping from One Reality to Another

Drawing parallels from our dream experiences, death and transitioning can be seen as a similar process - stepping from one reality into another. Just as we transition from our dream reality back to our waking reality upon awakening, death can be seen as a transition from our physical reality into an alternate energetic reality.

In this alternate reality, just like in dreams, we 'know' our loved ones, understand our situation, and engage in a storyline that we inherently understand, despite it being different from our previous physical reality.

Part 6: Transitioning to Higher Consciousness: Unconditional Love and Divine Guidance

Our consciousness, the essence of who we are, transcends physical existence. When we transition from life, we enter into a higher version of ourselves, unbound by human conditioning. This transition allows us to interact with our loved ones in a new capacity, offering guidance and support from a divine perspective.

Divine Mother and Divine Father

When a parent transitions, they can come back to us as the divine version of themselves, embodying the essence of the divine mother or divine father. This transformation enables them to tap into divine wisdom, intelligence, and unconditional love, offering powerful direct communication and guidance to us.

Healing from Past Traumas

Even if our relationship with them was challenging or abusive in life, their transition can facilitate healing and understanding. In their higher consciousness, they can energetically discuss insights or make amends, reminding us that we are truly loved.

In their human form, they might not have understood the truth of who they were. However, in their transitioned state, they often share insights about their mistakes and the actual truth about our magnificence, facilitating healing and growth.

Recognizing Divine Connection

It's crucial to note that this divine connection with the energetic form of a loved one is devoid of shame, condemnation, or blame. Instead, it feels like unconditional love, as if we have our biggest fan with us. It feels like we are their favorite person in the world - a testament to the divine energy communicating with us.

In conclusion, when our loved ones transition, they don't go anywhere unfamiliar. Instead, they transition to a higher consciousness. In this higher consciousness, they can offer us guidance, wisdom, and unconditional love, facilitating healing, growth, and a deeper understanding of ourselves and our relationships.

Part 7: The Grieving Process: Understanding, Validation, and Healing

Grieving is a deeply personal and essential part of the healing process. It involves acknowledging our pain, longing, and sense of loss, ultimately promoting soul growth. While the grieving process can vary significantly among individuals, several common stages are typically experienced.

Stages of Grief

Denial: The first reaction to learning about the terminal illness, death, or loss of a cherished loved one is often denial. This is a normal reaction as our mind tries to cope with the shock. For instance, someone might refuse to accept that their partner is no longer with them, carrying on their daily routines as if nothing has happened.

Anger: As the masking effects of denial start to wear, reality and its pain re-emerge. The intense emotion is deflected from our vulnerable core, expressed instead as anger. A person might feel anger towards the deceased for leaving them or towards the world for carrying on as if nothing happened.

Bargaining: During this stage, there's a tendency to dwell on what could have been done to prevent the loss. Thoughts like "If only we had sought medical attention sooner" or "If only I had been a better person" are common.

Depression: This stage involves feelings of emptiness and despair when we realize the extent of our loss. Someone might withdraw from life, feel foggy, and express no interest in future plans.

Acceptance: Acceptance is about coming to terms with the reality of the loss. It doesn't mean we're okay with what happened, but we're starting to accept it and learn how to move forward with our lives.

Honoring Your Grief

It's crucial to understand that these stages are not linear and may not occur in this order. You might move through these stages in a different sequence, or some stages might repeat. This variability is normal and a testament to the unique nature of our grieving process.

It's okay to miss someone; it's okay to feel the pain. Each layer of grief that we peel back brings us closer to healing and understanding. Regardless of where you might be in your grieving process, it's essential to honor your journey and allow yourself the space and time you need to heal.

Grieving is a deeply personal and transformative process. It involves navigating various stages of denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance. By acknowledging and validating wherever we are in this process, we can promote healing, soul growth, and a deeper understanding of our loss.

Part 9: Authority Over Grieving

Ultimately, you have authority over your grieving process. No one else has the right to dictate how you should grieve or judge how you deal with your loss. Stand firm in your authority and allow yourself the space and time you need to navigate through your grief.

Death is not an end but a transition to a different state of being. Our loved ones continue to exist in a different form and remain connected with us energetically. Understanding this can bring solace during the grieving process. Embrace your grief, allow it to shape you, and remember - in the grand scheme of life and death, we don't go anywhere. We always remain connected in our hearts through our Divine Love.

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